Actually, I photoshopped a picture I took. But doesn't it make a great painting. I even titled, signed and dated it!

Just
getting to the island held some excitement for us. We had to contend with large ocean
swells in our large catamaran on the twenty mile trip
out to the island. Its two hulls take the waves better than a single
hulled boat. Still, the ride was windy and rolling. Instead
of rocking in the back of the vessel, Jay & I raced to the front.
We had to make our way along the outside of the cabin area as the
boat teetered. We had to hang on to the low railing to keep from
going overboard. The bow was rollicking, riding a swell upwards,
hanging suspended in the air a moment, before it crashed down into the
trough of the wave. One of the rising waves knocked me to my
knees. When I looked back at Jay, he was airborne, hanging on to
the rail as we began the drop off the crest. Hoo! What
makes it even scarier is that Jay can't swim! Well, we both made
it to the front of the bow, got our sea legs, and whooped it up for the
rest of the way out to the island.
What a beautiful place.
During
the rest of our week, we rented bicycles, ate at a great vegetarian
restaurant a couple times, "Nature's Grill". The young ones went
to Disneyland for a day. We spent a day in Santa Barbara, walking
the wharf and shopping. And, I have to hand it to the people of
Ventura. Every evening, a group, with their dogs, would walk down to
the beach to watch the sunset. We joined them for a few dazzlers.
I really loved that.
Lastly, what's with the California
highway system? On our way back home, they CLOSED THE HIGHWAY and
didn't provide any help on how to get around the problem. We
spent an extra five hours sitting in traffic because of that.
Then again, Jay made up for the delay by going with the
traffic flow heading east as it hit 95 mph! Yikes! Fun trip.
Rock Band Champions
Who
da thunk? Nate had this goal; to win the best local Rock Band
contest. For consecutive weekends, a contest was held.
After a month, each of the weekend winners would battle for
valuable prizes. Well they won! "Vengeful Emu!", made up of
Nate, Mary, Emma, and Jay took first place and brought home hundreds of
dollars of loot.
In
June, a modified version of the group, without Jay or Emma, won the
State Championship. Then in July, up against some daunting
competition, they won the Rock Band National Championship. And it
was quite dramatic to boot. In Rock Band, you sing and play along
with songs on electronic game controllers that are modeled after
musical instruments. After each performance, the scores must be
recorded. Well, one of the band members jumped from the stage
(showmanship!) to demolish their tank (yes, they built a tank) and
somehow the scores disappeared before the judges could record them.
They were in first place at the time and this would have been a
disaster. In the end, it was agreed that the judges could read
the scores off the video that Nate's Dad had recorded and they won!
Shoo!
Whoops
So one morning I was peacefully
sleeping when one of Emma's friends wakes me with, "Janis hurt
her back and she's in the backyard."

We
had been puppy sitting a guide dog. Janis was out in the backyard
with the pup on a leash. The grass was wet with the morning dew
and slippery. Somehow, maybe from a tug on the leash, Janis lost
her footing and crashed on her back. When I got out there she was
hunched over a chair, barely holding herself up. It sounded bad.
Got her inside on the couch. I'm pretty sure she was
convinced this was a life altering injury. Called 911 and before
you know it, we were on our way to the hospital.
What followed was a
comedy (tragedy?) of errors. After x-rays were taken, we were
told we'd know in 30 minutes. We waited. An hour and a half
later, still waiting and pain meds wearing off. Numerous attempts
to notify the desk and get some attention, but it took a full two hours
before we knew what was going on. No terrible injuries, shoo!
Still, Janis was in so much pain. They tried to get her in
a wheelchair and out of there when she could barely sit.
Eventually,
someone came by that understood what needed to be done. Even
though it didn't turn out to be that awful life altering injury we
thought it might be, it gave us pause. Makes us thankful for our
health.
Empty Nest


And
the young one got an apartment in Denver. We rented a very large
truck and moved a huge load. Emma's sharing the apartment with
Jay and their friend Grant. They are a couple blocks from the
capital, downtown. Emma is in her second year of college, going to the
University of Colorado, Denver. It's a short bicycle ride to the
campus for her. Also sharing the apartment are two (now three)
cats. There's Axl, a rescue Emma nursed back to health. Axl
and I are big time buddies. Then there's Freddie, pictured here.
He may be a "rag doll" breed, noted for their affectionate nature
and tendency to go limp and relaxed when picked up. Their latest,
NOT STAYING, cat is Brody. There are definite plans for her
future with someone else.
To add to the excitement, Emma's car was totalled by a midnight hit and run as it was parked on the street.
When
the girls were young we said they could do what they wanted to the
walls in their rooms. Uh, next family we raise, we're changing
that rule. Mary then Emma had the room in the basement. Over
the years it had grown into "a work of art". Yowsers, painting
over that was a chore. There are still a few weird little
portraits that leak through.
Even though both of the girls are
out of "the nest", we all get together weekly for family dinner night.
We usually rotate where we'll get together and have some fun.
Wisconsin Visit
In
August, Janis and I took a week and visited Wisconsin. Our
primary reason was to attend a reunion on her side of the family.
But we also took the opportunity to see my brother's new place in
Door County and my folks' new place in Sheboyan Falls. For us,
it's like going to "the old country". We enjoy so many things
about visiting the state where we grew up. We love the food.
Most people will cringe, but fried cheese curds, oh my gawd. Yes!
Numaliciousness to the max.
Steve and Nancy's place outside
of Sturgeon Bay right on Lake Michigan is so great. The reunion
gang came over to have a look and just loved the view from the porch.
Our days up there were so relaxing. Something about that
vast expanse of water. Steve and Nance have been working hard to
make it into their dream place, and I'd say they've succeeded.
Wish we were closer to be able to visit more.

Got
to see my folks in their new place on their old street in the Falls.
Yes that's right. They lived on this same street some years
ago. What's nice, is they have some great friends in the houses
nearby. My sister, Colleen, and her son Logan, live in the next
town and can come by. They definitely have the 'moving thing'
down at this point. So many moves it's been hard to keep track.
But I think they're happy and plan to stay awhile.
Since
the laptop I had setup for Mom didn't quite work out, we were on a
mission to get some kind of computer to get them back online. We
did some research and found an older Apple "iLamp" computer that fit
the bill. Mom got a great deal on it. We've even video
chatted a few times much to their delight.
THE WEDDING
OK,
now we're getting to the all emcompassing focus of this past year, THE
WEDDING. Mary and Nate got married. The End... kidding! Man, I kill me!
I
mean, this thing was always on the radar. Mary had decided, the
year before, to NOT get married in 2008 because that's the year Emma
graduated. The wedding had to have full focus, which it did.
It was great to see Mary get this thing planned with her Mom.
They did so many things themselves, to save money and fit the
budget, and at the same time it put that personal touch into it.
You
know, first off, before reality set in, the idea was to have the
wedding in Ireland! Oh that would have been fantastic, but who
could have made it? Turns out, not even us. Then maybe the
ceremony would be in Chautauqua Park, under the Flatirons in Boulder.
We've always loved the place. But that didn't work out.
Then one day it came together. They had found the place,
Red Lion Inn, up Boulder Canyon. An outdoor wedding in a beautiful
setting. The reception in a huge tent structure with the
availability of the restaurant if the weather didn't cooperate.
Next thing I know, they've got dresses. The whole thing was
coming together.
Now this was the first wedding of the grandkids
on the Carney side. Pretty special. But all the Carney's
live in Wisconsin. Could they all make it? My brother to
the rescue. He made arrangements for the whole crew. Still,
we weren't sure if my sister would make it. It's been decades
since she's been out here. At the last minute, Col joined them.
More
last minute things that came together was getting a 15 passenger van to
shuttle the gang around. That turned out to be great!
Nobody got lost because they were all in the van!
What can
I say, the wedding was so wonderful. The wind threatened,
knocking down centerpieces in the reception tent. And just as the
ceremony was to begin, it died down. Weddings can be so traditional
that they just sweep you along in "the way it's always been". And
I like traditions. But this wedding had so many personal touches,
as well as the traditional, it brought it to life. For instance:
- Nate's sister, Desiree, was the "best ma'am".
- Desiree's fiance, Paul, officiated.
- Both parents walked the groom down the aisle.
- Both parents walked the bride down the aisle.
- Mary & Nate wrote their own vows,
but didn't share with the other until the ceremony. - No first dance,
but bride and groom sang "Come What May" to each other. - Wedding cup cakes!
- Rock Band!!
After
the reception dinner, they had two centers of entertainment. In
the tent, dancing music put together as a special playlist on Emma's
laptop computer. In another section of the Red Lion Inn, Rock
Band! The Beatles had just released a special edition for Rock
Band so us oldies were able to get up there and play along. Wow,
what fun! I was the designated van driver so I took it easy on the
drinks. Others? Not so much. Whee, smiling, happy
people all around.
I'm still getting used to saying "my
daughter's husband", but it's all good. Back in June, for
Father's Day, we finally got around to updating the family portrait I
like to keep on the sunvisor in my truck. About every seven
years I like to get a new one to really see how we're changing.
You know they say that every seven years you replace every molecule in
your body. And so, after seven years, you really are a new
person. Well, this is us now, "The Gang", as I refer to the
photo. I hope you and your gang have a Merry Christmas and a Happy
New Year.

Ya just gotta wonder what that next family portrait is gonna look like, eh?
Happy trails to you all from the Colorado Gang.