Xmas Letter 2009


Tis the season and all that.  Since the Halloween snowstorm, we've gotten in and out of the Xmas spirit with each wintry blast.  Now the weather's got us wondering, as it hovers in the forties, will it be a White Christmas?  

When I think back on the past year I don't remember a damn thing - kidding!  Oh, there were some standout events for sure.  Biggies.  Some so standy-outy that they pretty much eclipse some other rather memorable moments.  To give those other events a chance, I dug through my photos for the year.  Lo and behold there were things we did that had nothing to do with THE WEDDING (more on that later).   I'm thinking you can weigh the significance of an event by the number of photographs about it.



Uh ya, THE WEDDING indeed stands out.  Looks like Spring Break, Wisconsin Trip, & Rock Band were also standouts.   There are some events with few photos that standout too.  I think I'll take things in chronological order.  Let the tour begin!
It was a White Halloween!

Estes Park Getaway

It's almost become a tradition to getaway right after Christmas.  When the girls were younger, we'd go to one of the YMCA of the Rockies.  The last couple years Janis and I have taken a couple nights away in the mountains.  Last New Years we went to Estes Park and stayed at the Fall River Cabins.  Going there on New Years day most businesses are closed and the place looks deserted.  Makes it kind of nice to feel like you have the place to yourself.  One of the evenings we walked to "Nicky's Steakhouse" in the crisp mountain night under those amazing stars.  The prime rib & king crab buffet, wow.  I'm feeling stuffed just thinking about it.  So good.

Spring Break.  Ventura, California.

Skip ahead to Spring Break!  Now that Janis has a FULL TIME teaching job (yay Janis) and both Emma and boyfriend Jay are in college, that week or so in March becomes a much needed time for an adventure.  Last year we drove to the coast of Texas, this year we took the Ventura Highway.  Come on, sing it...
Ventura Highway, in the sunshine
Where the days are longer
The nights are stronger than moonshine  
 ...thanks to the 70's band, America.  We had the song queued up to play when we finally made it to the California coast.  That's a long drive from here for 4 adults in a rather small car.  But hey, Spring Break!   We had rented a little house right down the block from the beach.  The beach!   We got in some daily adventures all around Ventura.  One of the highlights was going to Santa Cruz Island in search of the Island Scrub Jay, a bird indigenous to the island national park.  It was Janis' desire to add it to her "life list".  Alas, it was not to be.  To commemorate our intrepid birder's quest, I painted this picture.
 
Actually, I photoshopped a picture I took.  But doesn't it make a great painting.  I even titled, signed and dated it!

Just getting to the island held some excitement for us.  We had to contend with large ocean swells in our large catamaran on the twenty mile trip out to the island.  Its two hulls take the waves better than a single hulled boat.  Still, the ride was windy and rolling.  Instead of rocking in the back of the vessel, Jay & I raced to the front.  We had to make our way along the outside of the cabin area as the boat teetered.  We had to hang on to the low railing to keep from going overboard.  The bow was rollicking, riding a swell upwards, hanging suspended in the air a moment, before it crashed down into the trough of the wave.  One of the rising waves knocked me to my knees.  When I looked back at Jay, he was airborne, hanging on to the rail as we began the drop off the crest.  Hoo!  What makes it even scarier is that Jay can't swim!  Well, we both made it to the front of the bow, got our sea legs, and whooped it up for the rest of the way out to the island.  

What a beautiful place.  

During the rest of our week, we rented bicycles, ate at a great vegetarian restaurant a couple times, "Nature's Grill".  The young ones went to Disneyland for a day.  We spent a day in Santa Barbara, walking the wharf and shopping.  And, I have to hand it to the people of Ventura.  Every evening, a group, with their dogs, would walk down to the beach to watch the sunset.  We joined them for a few dazzlers.  I really loved that.

Lastly, what's with the California highway system?  On our way back home, they CLOSED THE HIGHWAY and didn't provide any help on how to get around the problem.  We spent an extra five hours sitting in traffic because of that.  Then again, Jay made up for the delay by going with the traffic flow heading east as it hit 95 mph!  Yikes!  Fun trip.

Rock Band Champions

Who da thunk?  Nate had this goal; to win the best local Rock Band contest.  For consecutive weekends, a contest was held.  After a month, each of the weekend winners would battle for valuable prizes.  Well they won!   "Vengeful Emu!", made up of Nate, Mary, Emma, and Jay took first place and brought home hundreds of dollars of loot.



In June, a modified version of the group, without Jay or Emma, won the State Championship.  Then in July, up against some daunting competition, they won the Rock Band National Championship.  And it was quite dramatic to boot.  In Rock Band, you sing and play along with songs on electronic game controllers that are modeled after musical instruments.  After each performance, the scores must be recorded.  Well, one of the band members jumped from the stage (showmanship!) to demolish their tank (yes, they built a tank) and somehow the scores disappeared before the judges could record them.  They were in first place at the time and this would have been a disaster.  In the end, it was agreed that the judges could read the scores off the video that Nate's Dad had recorded and they won!  Shoo!

Whoops

So one morning I was peacefully sleeping when one of Emma's friends wakes me with,  "Janis hurt her back and she's in the backyard."

We had been puppy sitting a guide dog.  Janis was out in the backyard with the pup on a leash.  The grass was wet with the morning dew and slippery.  Somehow, maybe from a tug on the leash, Janis lost her footing and crashed on her back.  When I got out there she was hunched over a chair, barely holding herself up.  It sounded bad.  Got her inside on the couch.  I'm pretty sure she was convinced this was a life altering injury.  Called 911 and before you know it, we were on our way to the hospital.

What followed was a comedy (tragedy?) of errors.  After x-rays were taken, we were told we'd know in 30 minutes.  We waited.  An hour and a half later, still waiting and pain meds wearing off.  Numerous attempts to notify the desk and get some attention, but it took a full two hours before we knew what was going on.  No terrible injuries, shoo!  Still, Janis was in so much pain.  They tried to get her in a wheelchair and out of there when she could barely sit.  

Eventually, someone came by that understood what needed to be done.  Even though it didn't turn out to be that awful life altering injury we thought it might be, it gave us pause.  Makes us thankful for our health.






Empty Nest

And the young one got an apartment in Denver.  We rented a very large truck and moved a huge load.  Emma's sharing the apartment with Jay and their friend Grant.  They are a couple blocks from the capital, downtown.  Emma is in her second year of college, going to the University of Colorado, Denver.  It's a short bicycle ride to the campus for her.  Also sharing the apartment are two (now three) cats.  There's Axl, a rescue Emma nursed back to health.  Axl and I are big time buddies.  Then there's Freddie, pictured here.  He may be a "rag doll" breed, noted for their affectionate nature and tendency to go limp and relaxed when picked up.  Their latest, NOT STAYING, cat is Brody.  There are definite plans for her future with someone else.

To add to the excitement, Emma's car was totalled by a midnight hit and run as it was parked on the street.

When the girls were young we said they could do what they wanted to the walls in their rooms.  Uh, next family we raise, we're changing that rule.  Mary then Emma had the room in the basement.  Over the years it had grown into "a work of art".  Yowsers, painting over that was a chore.  There are still a few weird little portraits that leak through.

Even though both of the girls are out of "the nest", we all get together weekly for family dinner night.  We usually rotate where we'll get together and have some fun.


Wisconsin Visit

In August, Janis and I took a week and visited Wisconsin.   Our primary reason was to attend a reunion on her side of the family.  But we also took the opportunity to see my brother's new place in Door County and my folks' new place in Sheboyan Falls.  For us, it's like going to "the old country".  We enjoy so many things about visiting the state where we grew up.  We love the food.  Most people will cringe, but fried cheese curds, oh my gawd.  Yes!  Numaliciousness to the max.  

         

Steve and Nancy's place outside of Sturgeon Bay right on Lake Michigan is so great.  The reunion gang came over to have a look and just loved the view from the porch.  Our days up there were so relaxing.  Something about that vast expanse of water.  Steve and Nance have been working hard to make it into their dream place, and I'd say they've succeeded.  Wish we were closer to be able to visit more.

         

Got to see my folks in their new place on their old street in the Falls.  Yes that's right.  They lived on this same street some years ago.  What's nice, is they have some great friends in the houses nearby.  My sister, Colleen, and her son Logan, live in the next town and can come by.  They definitely have the 'moving thing' down at this point.  So many moves it's been hard to keep track.  But I think they're happy and plan to stay awhile.  

Since the laptop I had setup for Mom didn't quite work out, we were on a mission to get some kind of computer to get them back online.  We did some research and found an older Apple "iLamp" computer that fit the bill.  Mom got a great deal on it.  We've even video chatted a few times much to their delight.  

THE WEDDING

OK, now we're getting to the all emcompassing focus of this past year, THE WEDDING.  Mary and Nate got married.  The End... kidding!  Man, I kill me!


I mean, this thing was always on the radar.  Mary had decided, the year before, to NOT get married in 2008 because that's the year Emma graduated.  The wedding had to have full focus, which it did.  It was great to see Mary get this thing planned with her Mom.  They did so many things themselves, to save money and fit the budget, and at the same time it put that personal touch into it.

You know, first off, before reality set in, the idea was to have the wedding in Ireland!  Oh that would have been fantastic, but who could have made it?  Turns out, not even us.  Then maybe the ceremony would be in Chautauqua Park, under the Flatirons in Boulder.  We've always loved the place.  But that didn't work out.  Then one day it came together.  They had found the place, Red Lion Inn, up Boulder Canyon.  An outdoor wedding in a beautiful setting.  The reception in a huge tent structure with the availability of the restaurant if the weather didn't cooperate.  Next thing I know, they've got dresses.  The whole thing was coming together.

Now this was the first wedding of the grandkids on the Carney side.  Pretty special.  But all the Carney's live in Wisconsin.  Could they all make it?  My brother to the rescue.  He made arrangements for the whole crew.  Still, we weren't sure if my sister would make it.  It's been decades since she's been out here.  At the last minute, Col joined them.

More last minute things that came together was getting a 15 passenger van to shuttle the gang around.  That turned out to be great!  Nobody got lost because they were all in the van!

What can I say, the wedding was so wonderful.  The wind threatened, knocking down centerpieces in the reception tent.  And just as the ceremony was to begin, it died down. Weddings can be so traditional that they just sweep you along in "the way it's always been".  And I like traditions.  But this wedding had so many personal touches, as well as the traditional, it brought it to life.  For instance:
  • Nate's sister, Desiree, was the "best ma'am".  
  • Desiree's fiance, Paul,  officiated.  
  • Both parents walked the groom down the aisle.
  • Both parents walked the bride down the aisle.
  • Mary & Nate wrote their own vows, 
    but didn't share with the other until the ceremony.
  • No first dance,
    but bride and groom sang "Come What May" to each other.
  • Wedding cup cakes!
  • Rock Band!!
After the reception dinner, they had two centers of entertainment.  In the tent, dancing music put together as a special playlist on Emma's laptop computer.  In another section of the Red Lion Inn, Rock Band!  The Beatles had just released a special edition for Rock Band so us oldies were able to get up there and play along.  Wow, what fun!  I was the designated van driver so I took it easy on the drinks.  Others?  Not so much.  Whee, smiling, happy people all around.

I'm still getting used to saying "my daughter's husband", but it's all good.  Back in June, for Father's Day, we finally got around to updating the family portrait I like to keep on the sunvisor in my truck.  About every seven years I like to get a new one to really see how we're changing.  You know they say that every seven years you replace every molecule in your body.  And so, after seven years, you really are a new person.  Well, this is us now, "The Gang", as I refer to the photo.  I hope you and your gang have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.  


Ya just gotta wonder what that next family portrait is gonna look like, eh?

Happy trails to you all from the Colorado Gang.